1- I am not my thoughts
2- I am more than a body
3- [I aim for] Progress, not perfection
4 – My body is an instrument, not an ornament
5 – I may not love my body, but I appreciate all the things it does for me
6 – I am enough, exactly as I am
7 – I am worthy of love and affection – whatever my looks
8- I know my body is good, regardless of its appearance
9 – I am learning to care for my body as well as it cares for me
10- I am learning to show kindness and compassion for myself, even when things are hard
11 – I give myself permission to rest
12 – I give myself permission to feel sad or overwhelmed
13 – Experiencing pleasure from food is natural. It guarantees my survival & supports nutrient absorption
14 – My body is always on my side
15 – My body is inherently wise
16 – I am allowed to set boundaries for myself
17 – When I am hungry, I eat
18 – There are no binges in recovery [from a restrictive ED]. Only extra nourishment.
19 – There’s nothing a hot shower cannot make [even slightly] better
20 – Food is not the enemy
21 – Food is pleasure and nourishment, it doesn’t have to be feared
22 – Giving up on myself for the sake of others is just not worth it
23 – Self-care is not selfish
24 – Feeling at peace with food and my body does more for my health than forcing down kale or restricting chocolate
25 – The number on the scale does not define me
26 – Being vulnerable and authentic doesn’t mean I am weak
27 – Asking for help is an act of courage
28 – I aim to speak to myself like I would to a young child
29 – I can’t hate myself into health
30 – I can’t hate myself into thinness
31 – Clothes have to fit my body. Not the other way round.
32 – I am not alone in suffering. It is part of the human condition.
33 – In some cases, getting healthier means resting more
34 – This too shall pass
35 – Getting thinner is not intrinsically positive
36 – A positive body image happens in the head
37 – Changing my body won’t make me accept it
38 – There is correlation between weight and health, not causation
39 – Health is not a moral requirement
40 – Loving my body isn’t believing it looks good; It’s knowing my body IS good, regardless of how it looks (this gem I stole to the wonderful sisters behind Beauty Redefined)